Rejecting?

Not a sleepless night. 

I got myself in bed at 12am, but overthinking leads me now typing.
(and eating the leftover caramel popcorn that sister cant finish in cinema)

I love sharing good stuff to the people.
At the same time, I love and I accept and sometime reject opinion and recommendation that shared from my family and friends.
We like it when somebody accept our opinion and thought, but it does not always happen.
We all got rejected by people and we all rejected people sometimes.

Let's talk about rejecting.
Getting rejected is way more sad than getting accepted. (most of the time)
I got rejected with a mean way.
I was so happy to introduce a song but got rejected with just two word: 不要 (no)
I was very sincere and she was very straightforward and her face was very serious to reject.
My mood went down real quick.


While you are rejecting a person, please think of his feeling.
Some people are emotional, they will feel really sad .
Even not a emotional one will feel down too.

Maybe you are busy, maybe you are really not interested, maybe you want to end the conversation, maybe you dont like talking to him or maybe you are not in a right mood.
But please, reply in a good way, always be nice.
'Maybe next time?' is way much nicer than 'NO'

You may think that:
'Why? Why I need to do that? Why I need to change?'
'No means no. I dont want to so I said no.'
'You dont need to hide your feeling.'
'Being straight is much more easier.'
'I dont want to fake a thing. Just be myself, just be real.'
'Being nice? They know you are rejecting too.'


Let me tell you,
How you reject reflects your attitude and personality too.
(you may think I am too serious but this is a very serious situation.)
It changes how people see you, to be very honest.
And reject in a mean and straight way makes you lonely, because they will not dare to introduce you anything anymore.
People are scared of getting rejected in a mean way because it hurts.

'Maybe next time' and 'No' are the same, it means rejecting and people knows you are rejecting.
But the words have emotion too.
'Maybe next time' is way so much better and it is so polite to reply.
(Rejecting with one word is the worst, at least you are kidding and they know you are kidding)
Care for others' feeling.
Treat people like how you want to be treated.




Okay, let's move to music.
I watch lady gaga's carpool karaoke clip yesterday.
I am not a big fan of Gaga but the clip changed my mind.

She is amazing. She sounds the same as the audio when she was singing in the car.
Adele and Gaga's carpool karaoke are the best, I think.
Lady gaga carpool karaoke with James Corden (click to watch)

Her latest album called 'Joanne', her real name.
I think everyone had listen to 'Perfect illusion', it is in the album too.
I like Million Reason from her album Joanne.
Knew this from the carpool karaoke. (the last song she sang)
She sang so perfectly and you can see James Corden was so amazed from his face.
(this is the song I wanted to introduce but got rejected, lol)




"I just need a good one to stay..."
Hope you guys love the song.